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Viet Nam strange marriage customs: first night dedicated to ex-boyfriend

Viet Nam strange marriage customs: first night dedicated to ex-boyfriend

Before the wedding, the bride, often an older boyfriend. If it is determined that a person engaged, it is necessary to cut off relations with other lovers. Traditionally, wedding night the bride does not live in the bridegroom's ready, but to find old friends who sleep last night, "Shane."

first, "first night", "Shane" marriage.

Viet Nam Northern Barbarian tribe, married a letting old people get "first night", "Shane" marriage. Before the wedding, the bride, often an older boyfriend. If it is determined that a person engaged, it is necessary to cut off relations with other lovers. Traditionally, wedding night the bride does not live in the bridegroom's ready, but to find old friends who sleep last night, "Shane." Since then, also with old Lang severed all contacts, completely loyal to her husband, will not have any further misconduct.

Second, the "bride" wedding.

Viet Nam living in mountain areas in the North of Lou Lou (LoLo), young men and women show their love in a way, they put up a bamboo tube with a line of loudspeakers, boy to the girl he loved through homemade amplifiers to convey information.

If she had agreed to his proposal, he was ready to marry the girl. After some time, both men and women in private plans, girls to sneak out from their home, a group of young boys girls "abducted" to the boys home. After the man grabbed the girl, the man to kill a pig holding a banquet, celebrate the bride succeeded. Notice the bride's House the next day, third day care matchmaker to shuoqin.

If both parents agree that wedding, the woman sent two representatives to the groom's family, presented a basket of sticky rice and cooked a large cock. Housing for the bride and groom were to meet representatives of the two and eat them with rice and chicken.

third, the "first walk, after marriage" marriage.

Viet Nam ethnic Poles of marriage marriage is very special. Their marriage is the most important feature is that first walk, after the wedding.

first by parents, brothers, the Patriarch and the future groom went to the woman's hand, takes a bag of salt and a packet of tea, a bundle of used in weaving the rope of the net, a barrel of wine, night girl. They smoke, drink, discuss their children's marriage. If she agrees, first agreed upon men marrying the woman's life. Before the door were 8-12 years, now shortened to 3-4.

agreed to properly groom the next day will bring blankets, pillows and a knife and walk home, the girl's style began to change, in the head hair, says it has had a husband. Home lang, he is considered during the woman's family a son, but there are constraints. Can't sit at home the stool, not wearing shoes and slippers, cannot enter the mother-in-law, sister-in-law of the room. Patti's dinner, door lang, unable to sleep, to in-laws poured tea after eating, get up early in the morning for the whole family to boil water to Cook rice, nets.

marrying in a few months prior to the expiry, door-to-door lang visited the home again with my parents. Both sides agreed the wedding date, 11-12 months after the general elections in the autumn harvest, the day that is one year after the harvest.

the wedding day, the groom's parents, uncles, uncles aunts, brothers, a group of people to the home to meet the bride. Tribute to wear Thai dress family girl, but the big day, will wear the traditional national costumes. Two families of the bride and groom in front of the stairs of the House singing folk songs, female household of finely shredded banana flower and stir Sesame and Chili, as a side dish, invited male guests drink to celebrate together. The man sing, drink, all personnel of the woman asked the man into the House.

door ceremony of the maiden to married daughters have blankets, mats, clothing, knives, hoes, pickaxes, a pig, a chicken. When her husband, her husband's aunt back in the room a wife, if she is the village's people, then back to the groom, if distance, symbolically back only part of the way.

at this time, the woman with a cooker, grey, cow dung, pig manure mixed with the sewage spilled all visitors to the man's head, body, outside the House. Chaos, chasing each other, very busy. Because of this marriage, women and men of all people to a wedding, has prepared two sets of clothes, wear old clothes, play again and put on new clothes after the wash. Such similar marriage customs in the pularen, people also have.

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